I’ve looked at the calendar and realized that, since late July, I have spent more time with my feet up (due to the herniated disk in my back) than on my feet. :| UGH. That’s a lot of time laying around. No wonder my gardens are riddled with weeds… Anyone who knows what it’s like to be on bed rest knows that it STINKS after 3 or 4 days. I am a writer– I write articles and advertisements– and do a lot of typing on my computer. It has been a very difficult task, typing while reclining.

While at the doctor’s office, I noticed one of the doctors talking into a handheld recording device. He was talking about someone’s condition and was taking verbal notes onto the recorder, to be transcribed later. I thought, “I want something like that for my computer!” I could talk, and my words could be recorded as type into my computer. Not only would it save loads of time (everyone I know talks faster than they type), it would be so wonderful for someone like me, where typing is almost impossible in a reclined position.

Guess what? Some cool guy already invented such a thing! I am floored by the technology. It’s called Dragon Naturally Speaking 10 Preferred. You talk, the software spits your words onto a document. It’s pretty amazing! Here’s the NY Times Review of Dragon NaturallySpeaking for more information; and here’s a video of the program in action:

I can see how this would help so many people! Dragon NaturallySpeaking 10 Standard enables you to “verbally type” up to 150 words per minute without forming blisters on your fingertips (or your keyboard smoking, ha!). And this could constitute a whole new world for people who podcast or need transcriptions, such as the doctor I saw in the office.

A verbal program would take some getting used to, I suppose. But it would mean much faster writing and transcription. And it would also mean that I wouldn’t have to crane my neck to type while lying in bed. :D I think it’s terrific! What do you think?

What is it about bubble wrap?! When I get a package in the mail, the kids look at what’s come, then divebomb for the bubble wrap. It must be human nature to want to poke the bubbles and hear and feel that satisfying snap. I could do it for hours!

I saw this at someone’s blog (sorry! I forgot where! leave a comment if it was you). It’s a calendar made out of bubble wrap. You pop the day as it expires. LOL

My only problem is that I’d probably pop them all at once. There’s just something about bubble wrap, similar to a Lay’s potato chip– you can’t stop with one! You can see the calendar here.

The neatest thing happened to me over the weekend. As some of you know, I got my little half-Siamese kitten Thursday. It was a bit of a surprise– earlier this week, a friend had directed me to a classified ad advertising some kittens. The next thing I know, I’m driving out on Thursday to pick up my kitten. She’s a lovely little thing; we’ve named her Olivia (Livvy, for short).

Well, today the FedEx man walked up to my door and dropped off a box. Guess what it was? A brand new cat carrier! With a few bottles of Febreze samples! And one of them is the new Febreze Air Effects Pet Odor Eliminator! I flipped! It’s pretty obvious that Livvy loves her new carrier, too.

This package was PERFECT timing! And I think that the Febreze Pet Odor Eliminator is going to be my new best friend, and an important piece of equipment along with the pooper-scooper and bag of catnip. :D I have a very sensitive nose and the smell of cat litter makes it wrinkle. I am nuts about Febreze (I always get pre-owned furniture and it is always stinky– so I have loads of Febreze around the house) because it smells so good and works on fabrics (Lysol makes me gag, ick). The pet odor eliminator has a really fresh scent and it won’t make Livvy’s little nose curl, either. One pump on the nozzle and you’re good. It’s a great product.

The Febreze To Go is a new product in the line of Febreze stuff. I keep it in my minivan. My husband is a mailman and uses our van to deliver mail, so… during the summer the van gets REALLY stinky (sorry, honey). I like this little bottle because now I can tuck it in the glovebox instead of having that big bottle of Febreze that rolls and clunks around inside the van while we drive.

So if you have a cat or a dog or a sweaty husband (hee), you might want to give Febreze a try. It has helped me out of the stinkiest situations. And now that I have an indoor cat with a litter box in the house, I’m sure it will be worth its weight in gold. :D

I have learned a lot as a member of Entrecards, visiting all sorts of blogs. I’ve learned that there are some incredibly talented and witty people who run great blogs, and I’m a lot smarter and blessed by them. I’ve also learned that there are a lot of really lousy, crappy blogs that are basically springboards for all sorts of perverse behavior. I try to stay focused on the really good blogs and not let the bad behavior of other sites bother me. But I admit, sometimes I get in a sour mood after seeing the nasty ones.

I’ve also noticed that a lot of blogs are devoted to relationships, especially marital (or marital-type) relationships. One blog I came across today caught me by surprise with its candor and insight. It’s called the Marriage Puzzle blog. The post is titled, “A Woman and Her Existence” and it is a very poignant and perceptive post, despite its brevity. It got me thinking, especially this part:

A woman’s capacity to love can draw the very best from a man… it can make him feel wanted, needed, important, and great. The way she patiently wait for him to arrive from a whole day work symbolizes her love. When his nerves and spirit are shattered and exhausted, her loves can comfort him. When discouragement crushes his will and his hopes and dreams have crumbled, she can help him build new ones.

Many men are nearly totally unaware of a woman’s need for romantic love. For men, romance might be an added benefit, but certainly not a requirement. But not with a woman! A relationship without romance would drive her wild with frustration. She needs to be cherished, loved, respected, appreciated and be treated special. It is unjustifiable for a man to ignore his wife’s need for romantic love as it is for her to deny him his sexual urges.

It made me think about marriage today, how it is depicted in Western culture. Marriage gets a really, really bad rap, you know that? I don’t know why. I think marriage is one of the greatest institutions known to man. I’ve been unmarried and I’m married, so I’ve been on both sides; I think I have some insight about this.

Think about how marriage (that lifetime commitment of body and mind between man and woman) is treated today. You who drop Entrecards, you see what I see– ads everywhere showing slinky women vying for the momentary attentions and lusts of men; and men blogging about (and showing photos of) the women that entice them. It’s very obvious that the man’s desire for physical satisfaction is what comes FIRST in our culture. It’s like I say to my husband, “Western culture is a teenage boy’s dream come true.”

But where are the woman’s needs emphasized? “Romantic love” is what we call it today, but when I think of that term, Harlequin novels come to mind. I don’t think “romance” is accurate. Women need to be loved- to be wooed, to be reassured, to be special and to be that “only woman” to a man. Men complain that women complain about their man’s wandering eyes. “It’s only natural” to lust after other women, men complain. Yet they completely ignore that the woman’s desire to be the only woman is “only natural” too. Why do men want to be “natural” when it comes to them, but dismiss the woman’s “natural” desires?

What I’m saying is that responsibility and committment are missing in our relationships in this culture. In our culture the message is this: the physical relationship is premier, and if women won’t fall in line with that, then they are cast off as undesirable. Even among marriages, this attitude persists. In our culture, the woman has to bend over backwards to please her man sexually; but for some inexplicable reason, the man is completely excused from giving his wife that “agape” love (agape is a Greek word for unconditional affection and self-sacrificing commitment) that is essential to her existence as a woman.

People are not animals who copulate at will. People have thoughts, reasonings, feelings, and are accountable to God for their actions. Marriage is holy, God said. Degrading the man/woman relationship to a level with beavers and dogs is disgusting. Why do we women tolerate it and even encourage such behavior in our culture? Why is there such an inequality, even though modern woman touts her “liberation” and “independence” in our culture today?

I’d like to hear your thoughts about this. Do you see this discrepancy, this inequality? Why do you think this is so, and why do women (and good men) tolerate it?

You knew it was coming– another post about my new kitten, with photos!

In case you haven’t heard, we have a new addition to the family: Olivia the kitten. She’s half-Siamese. She is the most ADORABLE thing I’ve ever seen!!! This kitten is the sweetest and most affectionate little baby. She hates to be alone (she will mew pitifully if she’s lost in the big house, and when she sees us again, she bounces over), she nuzzles our cheeks when we get close, and she rubs our legs when we sit in chairs. I am madly in love with this baby. She’s very playful and wants our constant attention. Need to know how to lose weight? Get a playful kitten! She is keeping us busy.

Yesterday while the kids and I were preparing dinner, Livvy decided to bother Daddy (my husband). She clambered up the desk chair he was sitting in, and marched across his shoulders. Every once in a while, she would teeter at the edge of his shoulder, only to grasp on to his shirt with her razor-sharp kitten claws. My husband was amazingly tolerant of her antics.

Livvy likes furry things. She discovered my son’s cookskin cap and has adopted it. Maybe it reminds her of her brother (who was of similar color and fuzz). My husband’s hair, actually, is similar color and texture, too. Livvy found daddy’s hair to be a great toy! I snuck in and snapped some photos.

Isn’t she ADORABLE?!

For us in the Northern Hemisphere– it’s baaaack! Autumn, and winter is on the way! I love autumn– it’s so colorful and the air is crispy clean. And I prefer cooler temperatures. However, as autumn turns to winter, my skin gets horribly, horribly dry. It’s so bad that my hands crack and bleed. No skin lotion seems to help. Last year I relegated myself to rubbing olive oil on my hands (and that stuff is not cheap. Not to mention I couldn’t keep the dog away from me, lol). But I got a free sample of skin lotion in the mail recently and have been trying it out. It’s Skin MD Natural, and it’s great! It has no fragrance (something I dislike about other stinkier lotions) and has natural ingredients like purifed water, aloe vera leaf extract, Vitamin E, Arnica, Comfrey, Chamomile, and more. This stuff is marketed as helping people with extreme psoriasis and eczema. A few applications a day has seemed to help my hands.

Now I’m not going to kid you– this stuff is not cheap. It’s $18 a 4 ounce bottle, and that doesn’t include shipping. But the folks at Skin MD Natural guarantee that you will love their lotion, and if not, you can return the bottle for a refund. That’s quite a guarantee! And I think it’s a good buy overall, because despite the small bottle, you don’t have to gob it on like you do with the WalMart cheapo lotions. And after a day or two of application, you should start to see a difference right away– so you use less of it, anyway. The price tag might scare some, but I have some good news for you Frugal Hacks– if you are willing to blog about the product with a review, the guys at Skin MD Natural will give you a bottle for free! I think that’s a GREAT deal. And the lotion is very good; out of all the lotions I have ever tried (and I have tried a lot), Skin MD Natural is the best. You can read some testimonials from people who also liked it, here. It’s also the only company that guarantees you will love the lotion or your money back.

If you’re interested, you can try some free samples (small envelopes) before jumping in with both feet. But I think it’s a good buy, and this lotion is the only stuff that has helped my hands. It doesn’t sting going on, and it doesn’t smell like baby diapers, either! Check it out here.

If you are interested in blogging about Skin MD Natural, email Pete Grimaldi at petegrimaldi@earthlink.net with your blog url and mailing address.

Here she is! My new baby! Her name is Olivia and she is 8 weeks old. She is so adorable that I can’t stand it! She’s half-Siamese. I used to have a half-Siamese calico cat and loved her, so I’ve been looking for another half-Siamese. And here she is!

She’s a little camera shy. lol

Here she is. It’s so hard to photograph a kitten!

I gave her some roast beef broth and she brightened right up for the camera.

She has 6 toes and the sweetest temperament I’ve ever seen in a cat. She’s playful and very, very loving. Her previous “mommy” took good care of her. Whenever Olivia sees a human face, she runs right up and starts to nuzzle. Last night she slept with my daughter, curled up under her neck.

Olivia– or, Livvy, as we call her– was the runt of the litter. She’s a little skinny, but already she’s gaining weight. She’s slowly getting used to our big old farmhouse.

I’ll have more updates later. Right now I have to go nuzzle my little baby. :)

That’s what my physical therapist told me. :D My orthopedist says that I still have great strength despite my herniated disk, but I do still need to exercise and continue to strengthen my abdominal muscles. Because I was laid up for so long, I had to cancel my gym membership. I really hated to do it. So now I am looking for a good home-based exercise program. Here’s something I have seen: XFLOWSION. It’s creator is Eric Paskel, a celebrity trainer and fitness guru. XFLOWSION sounds cool because it combines martial arts and dance, among other moves, combining three full workouts in one. Your body is constantly in motion with all these various moves. I just love multi-tasking. :D

I used to do aerobics in dance class as a young drama student– LOVED IT. This kind of exercise, done for a few minutes a day, burns that fat and beefs up the muscle tone. Paskel also promises that with the XFLOWSION, you’ll never get bored. That’s a very important aspect of any fitness training or exercise program, isn’t it, ladies?

XFLOWSION looks really cool. I know I’ll never look like a Hollywood celebrity, but being in shape and having strong abdominals is enough for me. If you’re looking for a new fitness program for fun or to feel great, check it out!

My MRI appointment was finally approved by the insurance company! It was a nail-biting experience to the last moment.

The last time I had an MRI was two years ago. Technology is changing fast! Then I used to have to lay on a table and it sould slide me in to a small cubby hole in this noisy, clanging cavern. Now, they have something called “Open MRI” where they have expanded the cubby hole. It’s much more comfortable. It’s still clangs noisily, though. And the hard steel table isn’t much better. But I was thankful for the additional elbow room.

And MRIs used to be printed on film– those big black x-ray sheets that you see in the movies. Not any more! I was given a CD this time. All my photos of my innards are on disk now. I got to see what my spine looks like. I thought I’d share, because sharing is nice, right? Actually, I find stuff like this fascinating. Look how the body is designed!

These are photos of my spine, looking sideways. Those little white disks are the gel-like cushions between the bony vertebra. You can also see that one of them is squished and protruding. That’s what causes the pain- the disk protrudes out and presses on my sciatic nerve. All those years of tree-cutting and heavy labor probably weakened this area, I guess. So I need to again get that disk back where it belongs. Aren’t these images amazing!?

I’m doing better. I spend about half my day up and about now. I still get very tired and my oomph is still not full-steam yet, but I do feel better. :D

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I’m planning on getting some t-shirts printed up for us with my logo, and possibly expanding my new cards to include all my blogs. I highly recommend VistaPrint. They have more than cards and t-shirts, too! They have car magnets, rubber stamps, invitations, stationery, sticky pads, wall decals, calendars, and loads and loads more– and everything is fully customizable. And their prices make me very happy. :) They have some free products if you are timid about jumping right in (but you needn’t be). And I have a handy little promotional code for you for your order at VistaPrint. Ready?

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