My eldest daughter graduates in a few weeks. She’s been “homeschooled” her entire life. I guess this officially makes me a veteran homeschooler! Wow, that time went fast. :| Only three more to go…
Some folks ask me about our schooling techniques, etc. Of all the blogging I do, I really don’t blog much about homeschool. I’m not sure why. I guess it just doesn’t interest me enough. Now, if you had caught me 10 years ago, I was CRAZY about homeschooling; I might have blogged about it then. But now, it’s just another segment of our lives, kind of like washing the dishes or working in the gardens. Our homeschool has settled into a routine, and there aren’t too many exciting (read: disastrous) events to detail. Perhaps when something becomes so effortless and organized, you know you’re doing OK.
Well, I’ll just blog about it a little. No pressure; I’ll just chit-chat about our routine, why we do it, what works for us, etc. Hopefully you parents who homeschool will find something useful. I’ll break it up in a number of posts, to retain readability.
My husband and I decided to school our kids ourselves because we both realized the corruption of public schools and were wary of the social engineering of modern education. We’d read a lot of books and also remembered a lot of our own experiences. There was NO WAY we were going to send our children, day after day, to be indoctrinated into secular humanism, the fallacies of evolution, values clarification, and “health” classes (euphemism for Perversion 101). Public school was very stressful for me as a kid; I desperately wanted to learn, but school was so socialized that the consuming issues were your hairstyle, boyfriends, and the latest acne treatment. I wanted something different for my kids.
For the first few years, we sent the kids to a private school in the church. It was a classroom environment, but it lacked the one-on-one education. And the curriculum (ACE) was terrible. Eventually, the school organization was completely revised, and we opted for something called an “umbrella school.” Basically, we pay tuition for an administrator to maintain all records and tests scores, but we parents teach the children and supervise their work at home. I think it’s the best of both worlds, actually. I do no administrative work, but I get to work with the kids. We have assigned books, so I don’t even need to worry about the curriculum. We dumped the lousy ACE and have had good success with Abeka. We have purchased the books from the tuition monies, and we share the books among us, so the financial burden is decreased. (The children do not write in the workbooks; rather, they write their answers in notebooks).
The children are tested every week by the administrator. They must score an 85% average or better, per subject, or else they repeat the book. This helps us maintain a schedule and standards, and encourages accountability among us. I have stricter standards, where I expect my children to get 90% or better on their tests. On the harder subjects, such as Algebra, I am pleased with 85%; but in history, science, and language, there is no excuse for them to score below 90%. We work very hard at home and I will not tolerate slackness. Now, everybody has a bad day or week, so we are very flexible. That’s what makes homeschooling so successful- the parents are well aware of the child’s abilities and therefore expects the child to meet certain goals. There is no “dumbing down” in my home. Some criticize that I am too militant, but tell me, how many moms have Ivy League professors practically knocking on your doors, hoping your kids attend their schools? My kids are well-educated and very self-disciplined, and it shows in their demeanor and communications.
Well, I gave the body of why we homeschool, and of our general philosophy. I’ll talk more about our routine, our organizational habits, and other tidbits in posts to come.

















Tuesday, 13. May 2008
Well, you are a homeschooling family too. I didn’t know that. I don’t know what state you live in but there are options for many home schooled teens to begin college at the age of fourteen.
I just posted something about that recently on my blog if you want to search it on my site. I’m too lazy to link to it right now! LOL
I’m looking forward to reading about your schedule. :-)
Shelly M.
The Mom With Brownies
Wednesday, 14. May 2008
I don’t know what the laws are about college in New York State, specifically. I do know that a young lady aged 14 wanted to attend college (she had completed school), but the state was forbidding her to do it, because in NYS, you *have* to attend school until you are 16. And there is also some gobbledegook about having a high school diploma before you can attend college. Homeschoolers usually don’t get diplomas. The laws are geared to discriminate against homeschooled kids, that much I know.
I’m not sending my daughter to college right off. We don’t have the money, plus, I think she’d do better at home, still. I want her to learn Greek (we’ve only dabbled in it) and also take some other courses.
Thanks for your comment; I’ll have to check out your post.
Wednesday, 14. May 2008
Good Gravy! The laws in your state sound horrible. I’ve never had to deal with that in Michigan or Kentucky. Most states allow the kids to go to Community College at 14 and graduate homeschool high school at 17 or 18 as they graduate from homeschool! Washington State even pays for it! That’s just sad. I’m very upset and I don’t even live there! Michigan has the “go to school until age 16 law” also but homeschoolers are exempt. We don’t even have to register.
Here are the posts about college at 14 in our state and others.
Well, If your comments won’t allow HTML I’ll post the nonesense above in the next post. If it does then pretend you didn’t read this message. LOL
Wednesday, 14. May 2008
I meant graduate from college with an Associate Degree as they graduate from homeschool high school.
Our son will be 16 in July and will graduate next year from college if he stays on track. He’s been in college since he was 14.
Wednesday, 14. May 2008
We don’t have the option for homeschooling where I live (Canada), but the kids do go to a really great school so I guess it all works out in the end.
Wednesday, 14. May 2008
Yikes, Kim! Not have the option– that means homeschooling is illegal! :( That’s very, very sad. In the U.S., homeschooling was “considered” illegal just because there were no specific laws guaranteeing parents’ right to homeschool. That changed in the 1980s. NYS was slow to adopt it, but it did. NYS is practically run by labor unions, and the teacher’s union is the biggest union in the country.
Shelly, thanks for the link. I guess I’d send my kids for a class or two at the local community college, but honestly, I feel about college the same way I do about public schools: they stink. The only reason I’d ever send my kids to college is for that piece of paper (degree) that pleases employers so much. Not that it has much to do with getting a real EDUCATION.
Wednesday, 14. May 2008
Babus Lapus just now. Great post, and I look forward to hearing more about your schooling. It’s always interesting to hear how others do it.