I don’t think I made this very clear in the post, but what really strikes me is what the blogger said, “Many men are nearly totally unaware of a woman’s need for romantic love. For men, romance might be an added benefit, but certainly not a requirement. ”

This just blows my mind. I mean, what woman doesn’t know that the “conjugal right” is a requirement of marriage? Yet, most men (it seems) are totally unaware of the woman’s most basic needs, and even seem to prefer it this way. This is just stunning to me.

I think there should always be a feeling of courtship in marriages. My husband ‘courted’ me in the beginning and it was almost old fashioned but it was good for us. People need to look at marriage as more than a sexual relationship as well. It’s about heart and soul as well.

I think in today’s world some people tolerate it because they know there is a lot of crappy people in this world AND some have children and don’t want to put their children through the battles of divorce. I also feel people put each other’s needs first rather than putting God first so they don’t see the whole picture of God’s plan for them.

Marriage is work, but it can be a wonderful union if you learn to accept each other’s differences and respect one another. Kind of like you did when you met. My husband and I complain and play around. We disagree, but I know we both feel safe with each at the end of the day and are glad not to be part of this single world. It’s a scary place!

Looking forward to reading your other blogs. See you around hopefully.

Inequality has long founded its roots long before… and I guess women and men are limited to what is already labeled… that both sexes has its natural personalities… People tend to tolerate it since yes it is already “natural”.

If people are more open-minded to what are the issues of inequality, then I guess there will be change.